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I can now better appreciate a woman who has some different interests along with common interestsand I can learn from them, and be inspired by them, and focus more on sharing our lives. I think that's how you build a new "story". But if you're caught up in your baggage, and you haven't truly healed, you unconsciously build the walls of your own prison.
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